Making things happen with your mind? very interesting...?

i've heard many examples of this. positive affirmations, programmed water, and many more ("what the bleep do we know?: down the rabbit hole" on youtube). I've actually had a couple incedents where i could control something very simple just by willing it to happen. I saw someone sitting on the edge of a stage as i was waiting to get my yearbook pic done, she was very engrossed in talking to someone and not knowing that i was urging her to swing her legs. Everytime i urged her to swing one, it did... immediately. when i urged her to stop, it did... again immediately. i also told a friend about it, and we both looked at someone who was picking up an orange, and it spewed out juice in his face when he squeezed it. I looked at my friend who was very suprised and said to me that that's what he urged to happen (i also was urging it too). It seems the more people who urge for something to happen, the more likely it will happen.i also told my sister (who made fun of me, calling it "mind control" hahaha which its not, you cant control an oranges mind!). Has anyone had experiences such as these?